Welcome! This blog is devoted to those of us who are married to the military and have NO idea what we are doing! The only way to survive is to make it up as we go along. There are training missions, moves, kids, deployments, military healthcare, redeployments, FRGs, other spouses, other soldiers, living on post or off post, and whatever else the military throws at us. There is very little you can plan for except that things are going to change and probably will tomorrow. At least we learn two very important lessons: Hurry up and Wait! and Never take today for granted.